C: "I would pass along the experiences that I've had."

D: "In counseling you learn different types of behavior. You learn how to handle your own tendencies to violence."

E: "I would tell him not to wait too long, but rather to seek out help as soon as there's trouble."

F: "I would talk about me, about my reactions of rage and helplessness. I would never say ’stop it!’ to him. I would, however, mention that every type of violence results from a personal decision. If you need violence‚ okay, that’s your thing. However, if it’s not what you want, then here’s your chance."