Argument or Violence?
	"At the hotel you always meet the weirdest people, who we never get off our backs."He feels most secure when his partner doesn’t know anyone besides him. Isolation is a form of violence.
	"I slave the whole year for you, now I want something for me."He says what he wants. This is a good basis for negotiation.
	"Then I’ll close off the joint account." He gives her money and takes it away. He exerts power and control through money.
	"But we went to the beach just last year."Although a conflict of interests exists, a compromise is not impossible.
	"You want to go on your own? You’ll never manage it!"He belittles her, undermines her confidence: psychological abuse.
	He slams the doors and leaves the house. If an argument becomes so heated that somebody gets hurt (verbally, later perhaps physically), it is a good idea to change location until feelings cool down. Persisting with a confrontation under the threat of violence is not brave; it’s irresponsible.